The point is not gossiping around Weller's family or intruding a so private matter. Don't do it if you don't feel it. It's just respect... just a way to collect our mails and it will stay private, of course, a very limited access. I just have to check it's not junk mails (I had one yet...).
The Wellers will just know this mail box exists and they'll be free to open it or not. A fellow splinterite wrote to me "We care so much that we want to show our love and support in an appropriate way. John's a big character who is never shy of calling the odds, but for me, at the moment it feels right to let the family know the strength of love out there in the Weller fan family in a strong, close-knit way."
Can't say it in a better way...
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